Because of recent events in our lives, I thank God today for my husband, and that I have learnt to submit to him, under God. Submitting to my husband, under God, has kept me out of a lot of trouble! If the day ever comes when I don’t have a husband to whom I can submit under God, I will seek out a pastor and his wife with proven accountability to higher authorities in the Body of Yeshua / Christ, to fill that role for me.
In 2 Timothy 3:1-5 the scripture warns about the times in which we’re living, listing 20 ungodly character traits that will be prevalent, being summed up in people espousing “an outward form of godliness but denying its power.” Then the warning continues: “Avoid these people! For among these are those who slip into households and deceive weak women…”
Every household has a head. In a Christian household the ultimate head is God – to whom the whole body of believers should submit – but where there are a husband and a wife in the household, there is a scriptural instruction for submission under God. Ephesians 5:21-23 describes this order for us: “Submit yourselves to one another out of reverence for Messiah— wives to your OWN husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as Messiah also is head of His community—Himself the Savior of the body. But as Messiah’s community is submitted to Messiah, so also the wives (should be submitted) to their husbands in everything.”
That highlights one of the perils that specifically targets married women today, which is not spelled out in the 2 Timothy passage: lack of submission to the right spiritual headship for spiritual protection. The spirit of this age tells women that whether they are married or not, they should operate independently of male authority, and that is what makes them vulnerable to those “men of corrupt mind” described in the 2 Timothy passage, who creep into households to deceive and exploit.
I will stop here. Look into these matters ladies. Do not let your household suffer because of you opening the door to such men by doing things behind your husband’s back. Submit to your OWN husbands under God, not someone else’s.